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Glossary

Fillers

Sounds that fill a gap while you think: um, uh, like, you know. Try a short pause instead. Speak shows them as ums.

From the lesson

Drill step 2

Open Speak. 60 seconds on “Describe what you do to someone who’s never heard of it”. Target: 140 to 160 wpm, three or fewer fillers. Your numbers are kept in Me for Day 7.

Day 5 · The Voice People Lean Into: How to sound more confident when you speak: pace, pauses, and landing sentences

Drill step 3

Now record the same answer on your phone (the voice memo app is fine). Listen back and count fillers. Then record it once more, pausing deliberately before each new point.

Day 5 · The Voice People Lean Into: How to sound more confident when you speak: pace, pauses, and landing sentences

The mission

Review days are where the gains stick. Redo the Day 5 prompt in Speak and compare pace and fillers with your Day 5 run (your history is in Me). Then answer three questions in today’s notes: what already feels more natural, what did you avoid this week, and which single habit will you carry into Week 2. Pick one. One habit carried beats five noted.

Day 7 · Week 1 Review: Week 1 review: measure your speaking pace and fillers

The mission

Redo the Day 9 prompt in Speak: “What I’m working on, and why it matters”. This time look at hedges as well as fillers; hedges are what make you sound unsure. Compare with your Day 9 run. Then answer in today’s notes: which brave action did you do and what happened, where did you hedge this week and with whom, and what is the one habit to carry into Week 3.

Day 14 · Week 2 Review: Week 2 review: hedges and fillers

Where it is taught

Where it comes up

In practice

Examples from the course that use it.

At your desk

You open Speak at your desk after everyone has gone. Sixty seconds on what you do. 171 words a minute, four fillers, two hedges. You save it. On Day 7 you will have something to compare.

In the office Day 5 · The Voice People Lean Into

In the car park

You do it in the car before going in, phone on the dashboard. 158 words a minute, three fillers. Slower than you expected, because nobody is watching. Something to notice.

In the car Day 5 · The Voice People Lean Into

Related terms

  • HedgesSoftening words like “just”, “maybe”, “sort of”, “I think”. A few are fine; lots make you sound unsure of your own point.
  • PaceHow fast you speak, in words per minute. Around 140 to 160 is easy to follow; slow down for the key points.
  • Two sighsTwo physiological sighs: a big breath in through the nose, a short top-up sniff, then a long, slow breath out through the mouth. Do it twice. It can help you settle.
  • PausesSilences of a second or more while you talk. Deliberate pauses sound composed; very long ones can sound like you have lost your place.
  • Follow-up questionA question about what the person just told you. It proves you listened and keeps them talking.

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